When Communication Is Only One Way Street!

 Meh sini aku nak tanya para tetamu  yang datang melepak kat pondok aku ni....satu soalan yang simple, pernah tak anda semua bertemu dengan insan insan yang stuckup, dan berkepalahotak one way street? Tak faham? Okay, for example, kalau in a get together time dia akan hanya bersembang tetang dirinya sahaja, kehebatan, kepentingan, kerjaya, dan 360 pusing cerita hanya kisah dia dan when it comes for your turn open your mouth they simply brush off and back to their circle. Kau kat satu sudut lost in midst of confusion. Am I relevant to this group or not? should i get a hell out or just sit and play your card alone? Aku tahu One-way communication can be really pain in the ass, especially when you're trying to connect, collaborate, or get clarity — but the other person just isn't engaging back. 

Rimas kan, tapi apa nak buat kalau yang in that circle is someone related? what should you do? Perlukah kau pun adapt a very uncivilized attitude macam depa atau beralah? Ataupun kau diam ja jangan share jangan cerita jangan amik peduli dan masa diorang sibuk bercerita tentang kehidupan mereka yang terhebat di planet kau just brush off or palingkan muka ke arah lain. Ultimate satisfaction kan !Unfortunately you are not built like that, not in your gene not runing in your blood either.

 Its infuriating when someone you know suddenly ghost you out without reason. One way communication is one thing, ghosting you out is another. You share a problem, they hit you back with unsolicited advice, not empathy. It’s not always about fixing — sometimes it’s just about feeling heard.

Sometimes, showing them how it feels to be ignored or steamrolled can be eye-opening (if done calmly and kindly)....jadi semua ini it’s not about revenge, just awareness. Itu pun kalau sedar...kalau tak.....entahlahhh